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Re: wife of sleep apnea candidate-my apnea and my husband's


Posted by Therese on September 25, 1998 at 23:08:24:

In Reply to: Re: wife of sleep apnea candidate-my apnea and my husband's posted by Lisa O. (Gig Harbor, WA) on September 25, 1998 at 21:51:41:

Lisa,Lisa,Lisa,
You are so sweet to write and be concerned. I feel so terrible when i hear people tell me they had no energy to play with there kids. I could at least play with myself. That sounds really bad but I would tell my husband not to worry (sarcastically)
I would take care of business on my own, this would at least prevent me from being a !@#$$ to him. Unfortunatly he would just chuckle and somewhat probably be relieved. I told my husband a couple of weeks ago when I didn't feel he was persuing the problem that it was effecting our marriage and that I wanted to have an affair. I told him I wanted to have an affair with my husband and that I missed the spontanaity of love making. He had no idea I felt this way. I admit I did alot of crying about our life together and I told him I had no idea how much I loved him. For about a week we made love everynight of course me being the persuant. This was great for him he did not need to work nor think about it. Today it's back to the usual, if I don't start it It doesn't happen and thats ok with him.
I hope maybe your husband can get a hold of some of the letters written maybe left in his bathroom.
I hope and I will pray tonight that you too can have that affair maybe missing in your relationship. My husband was able to get librium to help his claustrophobia while doing his MRI in October. Maybe that will work for your husband.
So far my husband has been able to keep in touch with the boys. He may not ride the bikes with them but he'll sit and watch them outside. I'm very appreciative of your comments and yes during these past weeks I have become a much stronger person .
I will be thinking of you and yours. Therese

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