Insomnia Forum Posting

Posted by Hope Master on June 25, 2002 at 04:01:47:

In Reply to: Need support - making changes posted by Susan on June 24, 2002 at 17:18:22:

Susan..I think you did the right thing. Allowing people into your life that constantly supply you with negative energy is defeating to a balanced existence. On the other hand, all meetings in life come with some form of lesson. It is difficult when you are involved in any relationship to have 100%positive feelings all the time, especially if both parties are not completely self aware and integrated on all levels. There is often some form of subconscious acting out , role playing, or identity problem to deal with. We have to evaluate if a relationship is giving us total grief, and nothing good at all. These type of relationships are not worth saving, especially if work has been done to try and help them already.But there are others that are meant to be worked on for one party or both have something deep and genuine to learn from the asociation, even if they are not harmonious all the time. From many of your postings I see you are struggling in many of your relationships. Could there possibly be something that you are doing to evoke these responses? Or maybe you are just such a good person that others take advantage of you?
You should keep looking inside to try to understand your self. There is no reason to keep a relationship going if it causes you pain, and guilt unnessacerily.If you feel like talking to your friend a all,I would tell her the truth, for the truth is always the best. You have already broken the asociation off so it doesn't matter anyway. It might give her a chance to become more self aware and help her. Another thing that has helped me over the years is instead of feeling guilt and upsetting yourself feel sorry for the person who must utter disparaging words and pray for them. It really helps ...There are many people who will come and go in your life.We do not necesarrily vibrate harmoniouly with every one. Pick and choose wisely.Hope you sleep soundly Susan.....Hope

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• Re: Re: Need support - making changes Susan 22:09 6/25/02 (0)

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